Welcome to the Secret Society Club ZA
The Lifestyle Paradise for
Swinger Events , Adult Parties , BDSM events!
T's & C's
We are a private Venue , be honest , don't steal , respect our venue the owner and other Members.
You are responsible for your doings.
Important:
We don't provide any kind of alcoholic Beverages on the premises , please bring your own Alcohol in a Bag or Coolerbox.
We provide Ice , Glasses , Snacks, Buffet (as long it lasts).
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Swinger lifestyle rules ​
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Dresscode
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Code of Conduct​
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No refund policy
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Terms of Service
Swinger lifestyle rules
1. Consent is Key:
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Always ask for clear, enthusiastic consent before engaging in any activity.
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A “no” is always a “no,” and must be respected without question.
2. Communication:
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Communicate openly with your partner about boundaries, expectations, and feelings.
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Discuss plans, preferences, and any concerns ahead of time.
3. Set Boundaries:
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Establish and respect personal and mutual boundaries.
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It’s okay to say what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not.
4. Respect for Others:
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Always be polite and considerate—no means no.
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Avoid pressuring or making others uncomfortable.
5. Hygiene Matters:
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Practice good personal hygiene and ensure you’re well-groomed.
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Use protection (e.g., condoms, dental dams) to reduce health risks.
6. Confidentiality:
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Respect everyone’s privacy. Don’t share names, details, or photos without consent.
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What happens within the lifestyle stays within the lifestyle.
7. Alcohol and Substances:
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Drink responsibly—don’t overindulge to the point where you can’t give or interpret consent.
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Avoid illegal substances or anything that might impair judgment.
8. No Expectations or Obligations:
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Participation is voluntary, and no one is obligated to do anything they don’t want to.
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It’s okay to attend events just to socialize.
9. Safe Words:
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Use safe words for BDSM or other consensual play to ensure safety and comfort.
10. Know the Rules of the Event or Venue:
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Follow any specific rules set by clubs, parties, or organizers.
11. Aftercare and Emotional Well-being:
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Check in with your partner and others involved after the experience to ensure everyone feels good.
12. Be Discreet:
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Avoid exposing others to judgment or gossip. Keep your lifestyle private unless explicitly discussed.
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Dresscode
​WOMEN'S DRESS CODE
Women should dress to attend an upscale nightclub.
Clothing: Dresses, skirts, slacks, designer jeans, booty shorts, bodysuits, lingerie, blouses, panty hose.
Hats: Hats or head coverings are allowed with the exception of baseball caps, beanies, and bandannas. Religious and medically necessary head coverings are welcome.
Shoes: Heels, stilettos, flats, or boots. Dress shoes or upscale modern comfort shoes. All athletic style shoes must be clean and a solid color. Shoes not allowed include typical white running-style shoes, styrofoam flip-flops, work boots, or any footwear that is dirty, overly worn, or generally unsafe.
Unacceptable Attire: No t-shirts or graphic tees. No clothing with logos or sports logos. No utili-kilts. No styrofoam style flip flops. No zip up sweatshirts or hoodies. No jerseys or athletic wear.
Note: If you are unsure about an article of clothing, we strongly recommend bringing a backup to avoid being denied entry. Women must wear shoes at all times. If you feel like your heels aren't going to be wearable all night, bring a pair of flats.
MEN'S DRESS CODE
Men should dress to attend an upscale nightclub.
Clothing: Formal, semi formal, or business casual. Suit, vest, and/or tie. Casual slacks. Designer jeans. Dress kilts. Button down shirt, polo shirt, or linen shirt. Nice non collared shirts and sweaters are now allowed.
Hats: Hats or head coverings are allowed with the exception of baseball caps, beanies, and bandannas. Religious and medically necessary head coverings are welcome.
Shoes: Dress shoes, designer boots, or upscale modern comfort shoes. All athletic style shoes must be clean and a solid color. Shoes not allowed include typical running-style shoes, flip-flops, work boots, or any footwear that is dirty, overly worn, or generally unsafe.
Unacceptable Attire: No t-shirts or graphic tees. No clothing with logos or sports logos. No shorts, even if they are in theme, except for glow nights and beach parties. No cargo pants, or ripped jeans. No tank tops. No utili-kilts. No open toed shoes or flip flops. No zip up sweatshirts or hoodies. No jerseys or athletic wear.
Note: If you are unsure about an article of clothing, we strongly recommend bringing a backup to avoid being denied entry. Men must remain fully clothed unless after entered the Club
Zero Tolerance Policy
We strictly enforce a zero-tolerance policy for touching without explicit permission. Consent is non-negotiable—always ask first, and remember: no means no.
Violation of this rule will result in immediate termination of membership and you have to leave the property immediately.
Attention:
To maintain a safe and enjoyable environment for everyone:
• If you damage or break something, you will be responsible for replacing or covering the cost of the item.
• Any theft will be reported, and a case will be opened with the authorities and will result in immediate termination of membership and you have to leave the property immediately.
We appreciate your cooperation in respecting our property and policies. Thank you.
Please note, we do not provide any form of entertainment, and paid apportionment does not guarantee any specific experience or "action."
Electronics Policy
For privacy and discretion, the use of electronic devices is not strictly prohibited within SSC. All devices should be powered off before entering.
If you need to keep it on , make sure you don't make a video or pictures from other Members without consent!
Violation of this rule will result in immediate termination of membership and you have to leave the property immediately.
In General we will always have the Admission of rights!
Thank you for respecting our guidelines and ensuring a safe, comfortable environment for all members.
Code of Conduct
CODE OF CONDUCT NOTICE FOR SSC:
PLAY AT YOUR OWN RISK!
By paying the membership apportionment and/or attending , I (the member or guest) agree to the terms of this risk provision and I assume any and all risks and make any and all waivers to SCC.
I understand and acknowledge the risks involved and agree that I am solely responsible and liable for all costs associated with or arising out of any and all injuries that I may incur or sustain while learning or practicing for any BDSM / “Play”.
I waive any and all claims for injuries that I may incur or sustain against the SSC, its officers, the organization under which name I am participating or its officers, or any other members in the League or organization. represent that I have medical insurance or am financially able to pay for medical bills arising out of any injury that I may sustain in connection with BDSM/”Play” at a SSC party, event, gathering.
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SSC Party Rules, Code of Conduct, and Dungeon Etiquette
RULES
1. NO CELL PHONES, CAMERAS OR RECORDING DEVICES.
2. DO NOT TURN OFF LIGHTS.
3. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO TOUCHING OTHERS WITHOUT PERMISSION.
4. NO LOUD TALKING, LAUGHING OR RUDE BEHAVIOR WHILE SCENES ARE OCCURRING.
5. THERE IS NO SOLICITATION OF ANY TYPE ALLOWED.
6. NO DRUGS ALLOWED ,specially NOT in the bathroom , bedrooms , Lounge , 420 can be used Outside
7. CONDOMS ARE REQUIRED FOR PENETRATION, NOT ORAL.
8. PLEASE CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF !
9. NO SLEEPING IN THE LOUNGE & BEDROOMS
10. AFTER USING A BEDROOM, PLEASE LEAVE THE CURTAIN OPEN WHEN YOU EXIT.
11. SSC HAS INVESTED IN CREATING A COMFORTABLE SPACE FOR YOU. PLEASE RESPECT THE PROPERTY— DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING HOME. IF YOU USE ANY SSC TOOLS, RETURN THEM FOR DISINFECTION RATHER THAN REMOVING THEM FROM THE PREMISES.Violation of this rule will result in immediate termination of membership and you have to leave the property immediately.
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MEMBER CODE OF CONDUCT
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To better serve ALL patrons and members of SSC we are implementing a Code of Conduct. These are guidelines intended to offer all of our members a better experience on their visit to the club, by providing enhanced comfort and security. Any member who violates these guidelines, particularly by making any UNINVITED sexual advances by touching, caressing, kissing, exposing yourself rudely, etc., to any other member without permission will be asked to leave immediately and further membership will be denied or revoked. Members are expected to be considerate, friendly, and treat others with respect, especially single LADIES and the WIVES in attendance as a couple.
Most lifestyle members are happy to be sharing in an encounter so don’t try to monopolize them.
Lifestyle couples understand each other in and out of the bedroom, and actually like additional partners that respect their limits and boundaries. You are a guest visiting within their relationship, so always be polite and never assume acceptance.
ASK PERMISSION before touching and NO means NO! Accept NO gracefully. NO from either the husband or wife means NO, and is not open for negotiation. If you are told NO more than twice from the same couple or Lady you will be asked to leave.
Pay attention to nonverbal signals, both positive and negative. Body Language can speak as loud as words, so act accordingly! When talking to others in the club, make sure you understand their personal boundaries and rules. Everyone is different. If you have a problem with someone please tell the staff or management, and we will handle the situation, not you. If you’re NEW and have additional questions about the club or this lifestyle, simply ask the staff or other members in a friendly way, as no question is unusual or unanswerable.
COMMON SENSE FOR SINGLE MALES APPROACHING COUPLES:
• Include both partners in conversation and try to talk to the male first.
• Never ask the female half of a couple to meet you alone.
• Don’t lurk around the corners, be friendly, NOT creepy.
• Be honest and don’t make claims you can’t follow through with; like false bravado or tales of your sexual power.
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Don’t be overly assertive as you are not conquering a sexual partner you are trying to compliment an already happy person on a sexual adventure themselves.
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Don't ask your sexual partner after you had something how you have been or if you been better than their partner or if your down parts are better in size etc. , it's is not on any page to request those questions!
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Admission to the club DOES NOT guarantee that you will have sex, but only that you are allowed entry.
While you enjoy your time with us, it is the members duty to clean up after themselves. Make sure any bodily fluids, rubbers, or lubrication is cleaned up and put IN THE TRASH.
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The Rules & Code of Conduct are to assist you in sharing an incredible intimate experience, and if you cannot follow them and use common sense, you will be asked to leave the club, and will NOT be refunded your member fees. We hope you enjoy your experience with us!
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To become a Member you need to read , understand and confirm all rules above!
No Refund Policy
Effective Date: [01.01.2025]
At SSC, we are dedicated to delivering exceptional services and memorable experiences to our patrons. This No Refund Policy ensures clarity and transparency regarding all payments made to SSC.
1. No Refunds on Payments
All payments to SSC are final and non-refundable. This applies to:
• Entry fees
• Membership fees
• Venue hire or bookings
• Additional services or add-ons
Refunds will not be issued under any circumstances once payment is received, except where required by law.
2. Event Cancellations or Postponements
In the unlikely event that SSC cancels or reschedules an event, we may, at our sole discretion:
• Provide credit for a future event
• Reschedule your booking to an alternative date
Refunds will only be processed if required by applicable laws.
3. Policy Exceptions
Refunds will not be granted for:
• Change of mind
• Inability to attend due to personal circumstances
• Dissatisfaction with the event or service, unless SSC has failed to meet agreed terms
4. Communication of Policy
Our No Refund Policy is clearly communicated through the following channels:
• The SSC ZA website
• The club’s entrance, reception area, and booking platforms
• Promotional materials, and digital tickets
By making a payment to SSC, you acknowledge and agree to this No Refund Policy.
5. Contact Us
If you have any questions or concerns about this policy, please reach out to us via:
• Phone: [+27789351502]
• Email: [office@sscza.com]
• In person: Visit us at the SSC reception desk
SSC reserves the right to modify this policy at any time. Updates will be communicated on our website and at the point of purchase.
TERMS OF SERVICE
1. Membership & Entry
1.1. All guests must be 21 years or older and provide valid identification upon entry.
1.2. This is a private members-only club; entry is by invitation or approved registration only.
1.3. Membership and entry fees are non-refundable and subject to the club’s discretion.
1.4. The club reserves the right to refuse or revoke membership at any time without explanation.
2. Consent & Respect
2.1. Consent is mandatory—always ask before touching, engaging, or participating.
2.2. No means no—disrespecting boundaries will result in immediate removal and potential membership termination.
2.3. Harassment, aggressive behavior, or any form of intimidation is strictly prohibited.
2.4. Guests must be hygienic and well-groomed to ensure a comfortable experience for all.
3. Privacy & Discretion
3.1. No photography, videos, or electronic devices are allowed inside the premises.
3.2. All members must respect the confidentiality of other guests—no sharing of names, details, or experiences outside the club.
3.3. Anyone caught violating privacy rules will be banned permanently.
4. Conduct & Behavior
4.1. This is a drama-free environment—rude, disruptive, or intoxicated behavior will not be tolerated.
4.2. The use of illegal substances is strictly forbidden.
4.3. SSC-provided amenities, tools, and supplies must be used responsibly and returned for disinfection where applicable.
4.4. Damage to property or theft will result in immediate legal action.
5. Health & Safety
5.1. Safe and responsible behavior is expected—protection is strongly encouraged.
5.2. Any health concerns, including STDs, must be disclosed to partners before engaging.
5.3. Guests with flu-like symptoms or contagious conditions should stay home out of respect for others.
6. Booking & Payments
6.1. All bookings must be made in advance and paid upfront.
6.2. No refunds will be issued for cancellations or no-shows.
6.3. Discounts and promotions are subject to the club’s bonus system and may change at any time.
6.4 If you register as a couple but attend an event as a single man/Bull, you will be required to pay the balance of the difference.
Failure to inform us in advance may result in denied entry to the venue due to the couple-to-Bull ratio.
No refunds will be issued for denied entry.
7. Legal Disclaimer
7.1. This is a consensual adult environment—you participate at your own risk.
7.2. The club is not responsible for personal belongings, injuries, or any consequences of interactions.
7.3. By entering, you agree to all terms and conditions and understand that violations may lead to removal, bans, or legal action.
By attending the club, you acknowledge and accept these terms. Enjoy and play responsibly!
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